TOPIC: If you did not tell your gf/wife about your enhancement procedure. What was reaction after GE procedure?

How many guys here have had it done and didn\'t tell their eife/long term SO? What was the outcome? jaquez I think you\'re taking a huge gamble where the odds aren\'t stacked in your favor, as it relates to your intended deception. If she walked in with tits that were %30 bigger you wouldn\'t be asking some serious questions? I\'m not trying to be demeaning or rude but it sounds like you have some issues that you should sort out before making any critical decision like this. Are you ok with losing her? Having something go wrong? Having it too big for her? Having your sexual dynamic change? I agree with @thehulk but you\'re not just making a decision for yourself, you\'re changing something that someone else loves and uses. My wife would leave me the minute she found out if I did to her what you\'re planning to do to someone you love. Healthy relationships require a lot more than lies and a bigger Dick. I would strongly suggest going to couples counseling or at bear minimum telling her the truth. Then again I can\'t see things from your perspective and maybe everything will turn out fine. Either way there will be repercussions from your actions.

@friendoffailure you make very good points. I\'m sure I do not want to tell her, but I doubt I will get 30% and go for 10%. I told her I am doing PE work outs to make it bigger so that has always been my go to. I know I risk something going wrong and stuff and that stuff is scary as I\'m sure we all know but still so many of us have went through with it. Put it like this: do I want to lose her? no. Do I want anything to go wrong with the procedure? no. Do I want a larger unit? yes. Am I willing to risk the aforementioned situations for a larger unit and possibly a better quality of sex? yes. Without going into small details, it is mainly for myself, motivated by experiences and observations with my fiance. One thing that really hit home with me is that she has recently told me that she cant really feel me from the missionary position, one of our favorite positions. I knew something was up because she stopped cumming in that position and overall she doesn\'t cum often at all. I had to fight to get this out of her of course but I asked because I could tell the quality was decreasing. Less desire on her part, less climaxing, less noise on her end. This of course hit my self esteem. I asked her does it feel like I fill her up, she says no and my penis is pretty decent as far as size is concerned. I asked her if she thinks a larger penis would feel better, she of course said \"idk\" since how could she? I am the largest she has ever had. These are main factors factoring into my decision but not the only. So while I think this is risky, I have riddled Ian and Dr C. with questions and he has gained my trust. I am going through with it at this point unless something really thought provoking comes up to change my mind.

I hope it works out the way you want and she\'s happily impressed with the results. I feel you on the missionary. After our third kid things haven\'t been the same. It\'s SUPER hard for me to cum in that position. I still hit it there cause she\'s really into it. Kegals all around helped make it tighter but nowhere near the same as before. We talk about it, try new positions, play with toys, and hit the foreplay like a couple of bosses. Though she\'s not as tight as she used to be our sex life has become orders of magnitude better because of it. We\'ve really opened up doors that might have stayed closed and for that I\'m kind of greateful.

Have you gone through it?

jaquez wrote: Have you gone through it?

Not yet. We\'re dialing in our goal before I go in. Are you josh Williams too?

Maybe she has had a bigger penis and you just don\'t know about it that could be the sudden change in feeling. Women are sneaky just like men. Not to put any negative thoughts out there tho.

Or may be its a normal \"getting bored\" in a relationship which happens to BOTH men and women. Most people feel less excited about their girl a few months after they meet. In a marriage, its of course much more evident...IMHO.

friendoffailure wrote:
Not yet. We\'re dialing in our goal before I go in. Are you josh Williams too?

Not sure who that is. In the real world? Either way my name isn\'t josh Williams. Why?

jaquez wrote: Not sure who that is. In the real world? Either way my name isn\'t josh Williams. Why?

I don\'t want to frighten you and this might be a bit like when Bruce Willis learns he is dead in The Sixth Sense, but you are Joshua Williams.

You have the same IP address as him and answered questions addressed to yourself as him. You are definitely him.

Either you have multiple personality disorder or you\'ve broken the forum rules!

I\'m confused. You\'re asking yourself questions and giving yourself PE advice?

That\'s what happens when you start talking about prosthetic penises.