eqstudent wrote:
hoddle10 wrote: For example, when Britney Spears first came to public attention, there was lots of speculation over her virginity. But no one ever talks child sex abuse victims as not being \"virgins\". I bet if you asked any healthy minded guy what they envision when they hear the term \"young virgin\" it would be a girl like say Britney Spears when she released \"Hit Me Baby One More Time.\"
Thank you. You have made my case. Britney Spears was 16 years old when she released that hit. She was a minor. Where I come from that is illegal and borderline pedophile behavior. To suggest that anyone on this board would be \"good mating material\" for someone like that is very, very creepy.
In any case ban away. I have no wish to be associated with that line of reasoning!
I\'m sorry but that defense doesn\'t carry any weight, as you made reference to \"pedophile tendencies.\"
This means tendencies to prepubescent children. Even where you come from, finding a 16 year old Britney Spears sexually attractive doesn\'t suggest \"pedophile tendencies.\"
But the issue about you making the connection remains. We produce images in our minds when we speak or think. For most the term \"young virgins\" would conjure up images of girls like Britney Spears. What on earth went though your mind? Again this isn\'t a cheap pop given your jibe at Supa. For some reason you equated the term \"young virgin\" with children, which suggests thinking of children in a sexual way. That\'s deeply unpleasant. Supa even went as far as saying not \"old spinsters,\" which further reinforces the type of girls he was talking about were young, unmarried girls. Again, no one views children as being \"unmarried\", it\'s another of those things that in Western society are assumed. Yet for you the opposite if \"old spinster\" wasn\'t young unmarried girl, but a child.
Seriously why the hell are you creeped out by Supa, when your mind works like that? Seriously don\'t you agree that it\'s far more creepy to equate the term \"young virgin\" with children? As I\'ve said, when the term virginity is applied, the healthy mind, simply assumes the girl is physically mature.