TOPIC: How do I get over her!!!

New1inch
For the love of God, let this one go.
Not only was she cheating on you (online chatting./ saying she is single) , she is playing head games with you. Is this the type of girl you want to commit to?
When a guy gets dumped (and most guys can relate to this), there is a feeling of rejection and he desperately wants to somehow Repair the damage. Initially, the only way he sees how to Repair the damage is to somehow win the girl back. This is human nature but he has to resist the urge. Eventually this feeling will dissipate and he will go out with other girls (who deserve his time).
You have a lot to offer a girl, so don\'t sell yourself short. Settling for this girl and committing to a long term relationship with this type of person would be a huge mistake. I\'ve been around the block enough to tell with 100% certainly this girl will bring you misery.
Just telling you what you need to know.
Messageman

Mind is everything dude. Just make sure you win the battle with yourself first, and you will see how strong you actually are. This is a good thing that is happening to you, eventually you will learn your lesson and became a more complete man. It sure brought you down but you will rise up m sure, and you will be stronger believe me. I\'m under pressure as you are, although my situation is different, i have a long term relationship and one on the side which happened to grow in a mini relationship as well. So now I don\'t know that to hell am doing but am on my way on figuring out which path suits me best. I will force my self to make the right decision which I know will be beneficial in future. Same with you, force your self to make the good decision of moving forward and good things will arise.
You might wanna stop searching the internet on topics of how to win her back, since she ain\'t worth it (as some experienced members here have already advised you). The internet don\'t know the answer to your question since irrelevant answers are given by totally unreliable people ( same goes for Dick surveys, which has brought a lot of people to this forum). enjoy your life and get out more often.. Misery is fueled by loneliness, get an actual friend to talk to don\'t sit in front of your PC writing stories, go play some ball, or watch some sports....

I know i didn\'t show you the universe with my post, you probably already know all this , but sometimes when a man is desperate, he needs to be reminded of the little joyful things in life which he tends to forget along the way.

smalljay wrote: What people on the internet are saying, as well as what DesperateWidth was saying, is 100% correct. You can\'t contact her man. You gotta let her come crawling, which she will. It\'s human nature, basic game. I learned it early at 16 because I dated a CRAZY bitch, and honestly I\'m really glad I did because it prepared me for anyone and everyone ahead. You just can\'t care man. It\'s counter intuitive, you think they want you to send flowers and beckon at their every whim and call and BEG for forgiveness and sincerely apologize for everything....but they don\'t want that shit bro. At least, the hot ones who like sex don\'t. They, for whatever reason, long to be mistreated (to a certain extent). They only respond to coldness! You must act like you 100% don\'t care.

And even then, I\'m not saying to pretend to not care so that she\'ll get back together with you. I don\'t think you should be in a relationship with this girl, ever again (says the guy on the Internet who doesn\'t know you in real life, lol). But seriously, you should drop her as a serious option. All I was saying was, if you want some future action from her sexually, then use this trick of \'ignoring\' to draw her in so you can fuck her more than just that 1 time. Use her for the fuck toy that she is - don\'t look at her as a respectable woman. Because from her actions, that\'s not what she is. Treat her like she deserves, force yourself to not love her in the same way that you used to. Sure, you can admire how cute and sweet she looks and how she treats you nicely (to your face), but don\'t ever love that bitch again. She\'s untrustworthy, and she\'s proven it. You cannot change people, especially their sexual promiscuity. If you act like you don\'t give a fuck, then at a certain point she\'ll BEG for you to talk to her, or at least repeatedly try to make contact. If you wanna hit it, then answer her eventually. But never again let that love come into play. You and her should be finished as a couple, and just beginning as a severely unhealthy, abusive relationship in which you skull fuck her repeatedly and use her esophogus as a bottomless cum basin for the rest of time since she cheated on you (and she likely DID cheat. You don\'t just \'hang out\' with your ex bf. Be real with yourself and know that they probably fucked. Sorry, not to make you feel worse...but you gotta be real when analyzing your future with another human being). Then when you\'re done using her sexually - give her the boot and look for one of the rare, genuinely sweet and honorable hot chicks (did I say rare?).

And it\'s not that you aren\'t good enough, it\'s just that some girls cheat - no matter the circumstance. Some girls love strange Dick. My Dick is now shorter than your new 6 Inch one, and I\'ve had a girl who was dating a 9 incher cheat on him with me, repeatedly. Girls cheat on guys no matter what their Dick size is. They really are just like guys, only with pussies - in that they are very promiscuous and just like us, many of them like to accumulate a wide variety of partners. They like the sensation and the feelings of being sexual with a brand new person just as much as any guy does. So don\'t take this too hard on yourself. It\'s just human nature - some girls are slutty. Gotta love em for what they are (sluts, to be fucked) and not as housewives, future mothers to your children.

By the way, to cheer yourself up, you need to stop and stand in front of a mirror and look at what you have accomplished in the last year. You\'ve done what mankind has thought for all time to be impossible.. Out of all the generations of anyone who has ever lived, you, New1Inch, have taken your birthcock and grown it one solid, REAL Inch. Your Flaccid is longer than your original hard Dick used to be. So fuck her, let her cheat. You shouldn\'t even give a fuck at this point - because you are a guy who made his Dick bigger, and knows he can make his Dick bigger! That knowledge alone should be so comforting that nothing can phase you....but I still understand your pain. But snap out of it man! You\'ve basically discovered the best secret in the universe!Time and experience with more women will heal all of this. And the knowledge that women, just like men, are lustful pigs.

This post did it for me..(as well as the others) BUT this one did it for me. She has called me after I stopped contacting her which is funny because she wanted nothing to do with me. Im staying out of relation ships for a while to focus on my finances, health, and Dick. She sucked me for all I was worth and left me with crumbs... I don\'t think I could ever forgive her for what she did to me. Maybe in a year or so. Thanks so much smalljay wish I did know you in real life..lol.. no one has gave it to me like that. I love this forum.

Hope things are getting better for you New1inch. I can related a short story of my own experience, hope it helps in some way.

I dated a Thai girl for a few years. At first the sex was fairly frequent and normal, but then I became less and less attracted to her sexually and our friendship became more important to me. So when I finally had the courage to tell her that I was not romantically attracted to her anymore, she took it pretty badly. She had become addicted to me and had hoped to get married and start a family, so she got really sad and then angry.

To cut a long story short, I watched her go through all the emotions - at first she told me she would NEVER EVER get back with me and then at one point she started sending me messages saying she hates me. Bear in mind that I had loved her a lot, helped her in her life in many ways, and was a pretty good boyfriend for her. But through all this I kept my distance and most of the time I did not chase her even though I missed her (our friendship). Eventually she started sending me \"nicer\" messages and when I stopped nearly all communication she even started asking me if I had anyone else in my life and hinting at wanting me back!

Fortunately I moved into another relationship quickly as I knew this would ensure the end of my feelings for my ex. Now I am with another Thai girl, younger and more attractive, no commitment, and we fuck like crazed animals several nights a week. I still have a much deeper friendship with my ex, but a sexless relationship was never going to work.

I\'m in my early forties and I can honestly say from at least some level of experience, that women on the whole are fickle creatures. They often say they want a caring man, but in reality they are invariably attracted to simian baboons such as the loud and obnoxious types. They are also highly sexual creatures and will often gravitate towards men who can satisfy them sexually more than they would towards men who are \"kind and gentle\". No good deed goes unpunished and some women will take advantage of the kind and caring types all the while fucking their \"other\" boyfriend\'s brains out.

In general a sexless relationship will never be fulfilling. My advice would be even to stop defining the relationship as that \"ship\" has drowned too many people. If your social circle isn\'t good, go out and do stuff that puts you in/around women who you can meet, preferably not bars and clubs. I recently did two things which caused dramatic changes in my life: I took up yoga and enrolled in an Italian and Thai language course. Each of these new adventures brought me into contact with women. I\'ve made new friends as well as manage to get a new \"casual\" girlfriend.

Good luck New1inch, I hope things are or will soon be looking up in your life.