TOPIC: Just had a pretty nightmarish situation re: dick size

LOL @ the bleeds & doesn\'t die. Anyway, thanks guys. It\'s funny- I wouldn\'t ever see myself as the beacon of healthy self-esteem especially w/ relationships and Dick size...lol. But I guess a decade of psychotherapy has worked after all.

As far as seeing a lot of dicks goes, my friend actually made a spreadsheet of everyone he hooked up with since 1996. It\'s kind of amazing & hilarious. He originally did it bc he was scared of STDs and so he wanted to keep a list of who he hooked up with & when he was tested. Now, it\'s just become this crazy ass thing that he still keeps updated to this day. At some point, he started estimating Dick size in the xls, which isn\'t that accurate - but he says he bases it on his own. So, the average (of 244 guys) is 6.2 x 5.2. Some of the guys he\'s hooked up w/ online bc they had a big Dick, so the numbers might be skewed up. He also rated attraction and quality x Dick size - and there\'s 0 correlation between the two. Well, it\'s 0.11 but it\'s not significant. I actually think 6 x 5 is pretty much what the average is +/- 0.5\"...so I\'m not too surprised by this...but admittedly measuring w/ the eyes isn\'t that accurate.

I cannot WAIT for PMMA. All my post-op swelling is gone and I am 4\" EG at the top and 4.25 at the base....jeez it\'s ridiculous. I just don\'t want those lumps and stuff...I\'m staying in TJ right after, but I\'m not sure what to do for the next 4 nights... maybe I\'ll go to SD but I don\'t really know. Any suggestions?

Ok... this is highly embarrassing but I just wanted to post this. I had a few drinks tonight so my inhibitions are a bit lowered and I just kinda went off... apparently I am not \"over it\" as I thought...

Maybe this all makes me look like the crazy one. I don\'t know. I just tried uploading the screen shots, but PhalloBoards is having a size issue (giving me errors)... lol...so please see these links below...

He had previously told my friend I had the smallest Dick he ever saw and also had sent him fake Dick pics:

(i edited it and took it out)

And then I wanted to give him a little more background...

(i edited it and took it out)

I just got it out of my system. He\'ll probably ignore me or block me but I had to put this shit to bed. This really screwed with my head & now he is being told what he needs to hear. OK maybe NOW i am over it.

(I can still delete these texts before he reads them. (Maybe I should))

It\'s ass holes like this who made me think PMMA was a necessity. And now I have weird ridges and lumps, so great...and $3500 gone thus far...with another $3000 to go.

Good man, say your peace and release

Don\'t send any more messages if he doesn\'t respond. What you got there is well worded... any more would be too much I think.

Yeah he just blocked me ...HA... figures. No reply... not that I expected one really. I still kinda want to just punch him in the face once... just one good punch...

Anyway, back to sanity...how is your huge penis doing sizemic? I think early on you had that gap between the glans and the shaft...? How did that work out in the end cuz I kinda have that.

HA... Wow... I rarely drink that much... damn. I can\'t believe I even did that. This is one of the reasons I don\'t drink much & the headache...

Restoration- this is purely out of curiosity. I don\'t want this to come across offensive in any way, I just don\'t know anything about it. But, is what you have posted a common conversation to have in the gay male community?
It\'s just a lifestyle I know nothing about. In honesty, I have only had two male gay friends in my life (I\'ve known others, but they were acquaintances, not what I call \"friends\"), and neither of them were very open with me about their relationships. I knew they were gay, they were both \"out\", but they didn\'t discuss details with me. Perhaps for fear of being judged, or perhaps just being very private men. I have had several lesbian friends who were very open with me, but the males have not been. So, that is the source of this question.

Your question isn\'t offensive at all...no worries. Which part of the conversation are you asking about? The first part is very common. If you meet someone online (as a gay guy) - on an app to hook up (not to go on a date) - I\'d say about 75% will ask for a Dick pic or at least for the size. Outside of apps, gay guys talk about Dick size all the time...particularly if they are dating someone with a huge Dick - then everyone has to hear about it. And sometimes in the bar scene... I was once chatting w/ this guy for a bit - and then he just sort of stopped talking and said \"I have a huge Dick - we should get out of here.\"

Not everyone is like this, but it\'s definitely a topic of conversation. The situation above was with a 23 year old who still has a girlfriend, and the majority of dicks he\'s seen have been in porn...and he\'s in the closet...and has a small Dick...and is a size queen... so this is a bit out of the ordinary. But, on average - most gay guys I know are size queens with a few exceptions.

Me going off on him 3 months later after I had some drinks (I removed it cuz it\'s a little ridiculous)...is probably not normal... lol. But whatever.

Restoration wrote: Your question isn\'t offensive at all...no worries. Which part of the conversation are you asking about? The first part is very common. If you meet someone online (as a gay guy) - on an app to hook up (not to go on a date) - I\'d say about 75% will ask for a Dick pic or at least for the size. Outside of apps, gay guys talk about Dick size all the time...particularly if they are dating someone with a huge Dick - then everyone has to hear about it. And sometimes in the bar scene... I was once chatting w/ this guy for a bit - and then he just sort of stopped talking and said \"I have a huge Dick - we should get out of here.\"

Not everyone is like this, but it\'s definitely a topic of conversation. The situation above was with a 23 year old who still has a girlfriend, and the majority of dicks he\'s seen have been in porn...and he\'s in the closet...and has a small Dick...and is a size queen... so this is a bit out of the ordinary. But, on average - most gay guys I know are size queens with a few exceptions.

Me going off on him 3 months later after I had some drinks (I removed it cuz it\'s a little ridiculous)...is probably not normal... lol. But whatever.

Yea, I guess I could have been more specific. I was a bit tired when I wrote that post, and probably not thinking coherently enough to be communicating with people, lol. I was really referring to the full exchange.I mean, I\'m straight, and I\'ve had women tell me the whole \"yea some guys talk a big game, and then when you see it, it\'s not all that\", and then I\'ve heard the \"I fucked one guy who was no shit ten inches\" (then her eyes almost pop out of her head when she sees mine, and I\'m sure tells people I\'m like 18 inches, haha). For the record my length varies from about 7.5-7.75 and my Girth 5.25 midshaft, ~5.5 at the base. I get \"big Dick\" comments all the time, I can\'t imagine a penis not much smaller than mine being taunted and someone saying it\'s the SMALLEST they have ever seen. Unless of course, they\'ve seen very few penises and all of them were by some miracle large. That guy you were dealing with is an ass.But, anyway... back to what you asked... it struck me odd that this guy showed another man the picture, said it OBVIOUSLY wasn\'t your Dick, when it obviously was, and basically talked pure shit about you with no basis whatsoever. I\'ve honestly never had a woman just whip out a picture of a guys Cock and say \"he sent me this shit, and it looks like a pretty big Cock, but his is nowhere near this big. This isn\'t his Cock\", meanwhile the guy is waving at the camera in the mirror (or some other hard proof). Especially when I always hear that mine (and presumably everyone elses) looks bigger in person than in pictures.While I\'m sure your story is 100% true, it\'s just near unimaginable to me. The few gay friends that I\'ve had have made mention that \"it\'s a different dynamic\", but they never would go into detail or qualify/quantify the difference. The internet gives anonymity, and I think makes the conversation easier to have for a lot of people.I think I also read more info that you had posted that you have since deleted. I\'m not 100% sure on that, but I definitely seem to remember reading more than I re-read today.Thanks Resto.

He didn\'t actually send any pics of me to the other guy... he just said a bunch of negative things about me and that I had the \"smallest Dick he\'d ever seen\" or whatever - that part is still up on here. And, he said somewhere in there that I sent a fake pic, and he realized \"too late\". So, you got the story right except for him saving the Dick pic and re-sending it. He didn\'t do that. He\'s just very dumb... I mean, all the same furniture was in the background & so was my blanket, etc... the pic was in my bedroom (i was laying on my bed). And, if he\'s that big of a size queen...and in the closet...and has a small Dick himself...he has some more problem to deal with than I do. Yeah, \"it\'s a different dynamic\" all right.. lol. This is just the tip of the iceberg...but most of the ridiculous behavior isn\'t Dick-related.

Ahh, okay. That does make his actions slightly less outlandish. He was still a jerk, though, haha. Glad you have been able to move on from that.