TOPIC: Did any woman denigrate you because of your penis sizes?

Yes, my actual wife said \"you have a little Dick\" a couple of Months ago, since then she apologies but our relationship its not the same, i dont want to have sex anymore but only with here and im kind of desperate looking for a solution

Ouch, I\'m sorry man. Were you two in the middle of an argument by chance?

Yes, we were fighting and arguing, she told me later she was mad, but i really cannot forget Her words, she said something like \"your first wife Cheat you because of your small Dick, yes you have a small Dick\" Now we didnt shower together, i only want to have sex in the night and with lights off, i dont let Her touch me when i am flacid, i joke with Her of my small Dick and she gets angry, i think i love my wife too much but i dont want to be with here because the pain and shame

Thank for your supoort

Yeah, women tend to strike where they know it hurts. But most of them will never understand the psychological toll that will occur when those words are uttered. Honestly, I have nothing for you as far as getting over it other than saying that if you don\'t or can\'t let it go, the quality of your relationship with your wife... and yourself, will suffer.

chipito wrote: Yes, my actual wife said \"you have a little Dick\" a couple of Months ago, since then she apologies but our relationship its not the same, i dont want to have sex anymore but only with here and im kind of desperate looking for a solution

what are your measruements? if you don\'t mind me asking.

chipito wrote: Yes, my actual wife said \"you have a little Dick\" a couple of Months ago, since then she apologies but our relationship its not the same, i dont want to have sex anymore but only with here and im kind of desperate looking for a solution

I think the case with most women is that they think that men are so tough and that they can take any verbal abuse or even physical abuse and brush it aside. Most women have no clue that men are also sensitive and can be hurt easily. As usual, our society breeds such thinking.

Now, it is true that men are tough in many ways, but it is also true that they have feelings and emotions and can be hurt just as easily as women do but men are trained to hide their feelings due to social norms...How many times have you heard: tough it up, be a man, are you a sissy?, You are the man of the house so you have to make the money, you\'re the man take the trash, money does not matter I love you (woman) for you (TOTAL BS)...etc....

If any women tells me my Dick is small, I tell them right away that they are fat, have a fat ass and they have a big pussy..big pussy (first terminator movie ) and it works like magic....

Live Long and prosper!

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Dance With Dragons wrote: I have to agree, women will say and think that a guy has a little Dick, but if you tell them they have a big vagina, and they really do, they take that shit very hard. I am a big advocate for fixing this whole penis shaming society with some good old fashioned vagina shaming. It\'s not going to get better until the playing field is leveled, and though there is some talk about labia size which is meaningless, the depth and tightness of vaginas needs to be a topic men discuss, brag about ( I had a chick with the tiniest vagina last night), and giggle about, or the penis shaming will never stop. When women get it through their heads that their big vagina, size queen status is not a point of pride but just as shameful as a small penis, they will shut the fuck up and society will improve. End of rant.

Yea I told my wife she had a large vagina and she took it hard. She did keagles for years and now it\'s a lot tighter which is the reason we don\'t have back to back sessions anymore because she got tighter and a I got bigger. It\'s a nice fit though.

We used to swing (taking a break) and her pussy was tighter then just about all of the pussy in the room which is wierd because I\'m always thicker then everyone in the room.

But yea, vagina shaming would have those bitches taking a pause and realizing that needing a 9 Inch penis to feel something might actually be THEIR problem lol...

I never understood why people that have a gf or a wife would become swingers. and people that don\'t have that luck to even have one girl would die to just have that one girl. if I only had one pussy that would be enough for me I would not need to seek a swinger club or anything.

dcpimpin12 wrote: I never understood why people that have a gf or a wife would become swingers. and people that don\'t have that luck to even have one girl would die to just have that one girl. if I only had one pussy that would be enough for me I would not need to seek a swinger club or anything.

I can\'t pretend to know your situation. But with that said, if you have never swung then who are you to question those that do?

If you really don\'t understand why, let me clarify it as simply as possible..

Some people/couples enjoy sex with other people while having a meaningful relationship with their significant other...I enjoy watching my wife and I enjoy fucking other pussy.

What is there to not understand?

thehulk wrote: Yea I told my wife she had a large vagina and she took it hard. She did keagles for years and now it\'s a lot tighter which is the reason we don\'t have back to back sessions anymore because she got tighter and a I got bigger. It\'s a nice fit though. We used to swing (taking a break) and her pussy was tighter then just about all of the pussy in the room which is wierd because I\'m always thicker then everyone in the room. But yea, vagina shaming would have those bitches taking a pause and realizing that needing a 9 Inch penis to feel something might actually be THEIR problem lol...

Can I ask you how you felt if your wife had a longer but thinner penis than yours? Since you have a thicker penis, I would like to imagine that the length of the other guy does not bother you.

If this is a personal question, you may answer by PM or not answer at all....Thx man!

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Mustang2020 wrote:

thehulk wrote: Yea I told my wife she had a large vagina and she took it hard. She did keagles for years and now it\'s a lot tighter which is the reason we don\'t have back to back sessions anymore because she got tighter and a I got bigger. It\'s a nice fit though. We used to swing (taking a break) and her pussy was tighter then just about all of the pussy in the room which is wierd because I\'m always thicker then everyone in the room. But yea, vagina shaming would have those bitches taking a pause and realizing that needing a 9 Inch penis to feel something might actually be THEIR problem lol...

Can I ask you how you felt if your wife had a longer but thinner penis than yours? Since you have a thicker penis, I would like to imagine that the length of the other guy does not bother you.

If this is a personal question, you may answer by PM or not answer at all....Thx man!

It has happened the length before and it\'s not a big deal.

Honestly I have more of a problem with how black males are received in the swinger lifestyle... no matter the size of their penis they are considered BBC (big black Cock) and for some strange reason 85% of the swinger community flock to bbc like it\'s something special, which annoys me because I\'ve seen huge white Cock as much as I\'ve seen huge black Cock.

I think it\'s an unfair advantage in the swinging community. But that\'s just my opinion/observstion.

@ thehulk I don\'t know why but every time I watch homemade swingers porn. The women always are unattractive or have chubby bodies or flabby stomachs etc. the guys are usually balding with beer bellies. I rarely see young swingers. Early and mid 20\'s. It\'s always mostly Middle Aged people I see doing this..That\'s why I always was turned off by it and thought it to be gross and not a pretty sight. Is that how it really is in reality? No offense or anything jus talking what I observed with online homemade vids.

New1inch wrote: @ thehulk I don\'t know why but every time I watch homemade swingers porn. The women always are unattractive or have chubby bodies or flabby stomachs etc. the guys are usually balding with beer bellies. I rarely see young swingers. Early and mid 20\'s. It\'s always mostly Middle Aged people I see doing this..That\'s why I always was turned off by it and thought it to be gross and not a pretty sight. Is that how it really is in reality? No offense or anything jus talking what I observed with online homemade vids.

No, it\'s a mix of everyone really. You find a upscale swingers club and you\'ll see 75% of high quality couples but there are ugly people everywhere.

You\'ll find 60yr Olds and you\'ll find low 20yr old couples and everything in between.

Don\'t expect to play with many couples outside of your league though, it\'s pretty cliquey in that regard. My wife and I are both very attractive but we are thick, so that narrows us down to playing with mainly solid 8 couples. And that\'s fine, we\'re just looking to fuck not marry them.

Single males are not in high demand though, however they are everywhere. You really need a female partner to enjoy swinging.