TOPIC: Your thoughts on escorts

@ ilovetofu, do U.S. Money go a kind way in Brazil? I have some vacation days coming up and I prefer Brazilian over Thai any day. Just something about Latin women that gets me going. I just want to make sure I don\'t go broke.

In S.E.Asia, I saw an old western man, about 80-85, frail, walking very slowly, very thin, and on each one of his arms there was an beautiful 28-32 year old Asian lady walking with him side by side. They were all talking, laughing and having a great time. I wish I had recorded it. The look and the happiness on that old man face was Priceless. No where in the western world would this be acceptable. I can just see the feminists having a attack seeing such a scene.

I said to myself: what\'s wrong with this picture??? and I answered myself quite quickly: NOTHING!!!
This man would never have dreamed of having so mcuh fun for so little back in his own country, not counting the redicule he would get from his society. His options back home are 75-90 year old women with attitude: I am woman hear me roar!! He probably can not even get it up, but he was so happy to be treated like a MAN, like he always wished he was treated all his life in his land.

Some of these\"escort\" women (call them what you like) are actually very lucky. They are born with a money making machine, they get treated very well by most customers, they travel and are bought things, and in many cases they actually will orgasm and have great sex with some of their favorite guys. How much better can it get? Have good sex AND get paid for it.

Sex for money, and Money for Sex...It is the same. I always felt I was paying for sex even with my ex bitchy wife. Sex was withheld when she was not happy....but \"OK\" sex was \"given\" when she had what she wanted...You tell me this is not sex for money! I say \"given\" because some how most women feel that they are \"allowing\" you to have their bodies and they are doing you a favor. In reality, most men have \"earned\" their mediocre sex privileges...They paid for it!

As long as sex is done safely and without pimps between two consenting adults, It is fine with me.
Many women are born beautiful and they are lucky that they do not have to work so hard to get money, Either by marrying a rich man or by escorting themselves....On the other hand, typically speaking, most men these days have to go to college and \"earn\" money the hard way.

Like CHL said, open your mind!!!

Live long and F**k long

Nah bruh, that 80 year old is gross as fuck.

Natural selection has long been lost, if it was like it should be where we fight for everything his old ass would be in the dirt. Lol.... other than him being disgusting I generally have no issue with consenting adults....

My thoughts on escorts... fuck em.

Sizemic wrote: My thoughts on escorts... fuck em.

Lol, literally or figuratively?

@new1inch yes your greenbacks will go a long way in Brazil. however, they will not last as long if you go about things the \"wrong\" way, ie. fall into the tourist traps and don\'t research before you go there. there is a lot of good reading material and advice on the Net. do some searching and you will find a lot of advice.

ilovetofu.. If possible can you shoot me a PM on any sites I can check to read up.. thanks bro..I LOVE Brazilian women

Hi New1inch.

It's generally easy for a Western male to date in lower income countries, especially in Latin America. Being a Westerner automatically associates you with money, and of course its also a chance for the girl to obtain a visa back to the richer country. It also draws in girls who might be tired of the macho-infested culture and are eager for a change. This is certainly true all over Latin America. Except Brazil.

Some basic tips/info for you:

THE RULE
Brazilian girls usually fall into two camps, those who exclusively date Brazilian guys and those that have dated and are open to dating foreigners (gringos). This alone sets Brazil apart from the rest of Latin America. Signs that a girl is open to dating a gringo: she has lived/travelled abroad, she speaks great English, she had or has gringo friends, she hangs out in places where gringos go, etc.

GRINGO\'S
Unfortunately male gringos in Brazil have a somewhat negative reputation as prostitute seekers and exploiters of Brazil's natural resources (i.e., women). This creates a double standard. The girls are especially sensitive to such stereotypes, and as a result they will take any negative \"asshole-type\" behaviour very personally. Even a light tease that's culturally acceptable anywhere else can result in backlash, while the same behaviour from a Brazilian guy can be totally acceptable. This means in the initial encounter, refrain from any questionable teasing and keep things very friendly.

VENUE
If you go places that charge say a $50 cover, then you would expect to meet girls who are interested in meeting well-off guys. However, if you go to street parties and cheaper places, chances are the girls will be more down to earth. In Rio, Ipanema and Leblon have the most beautiful, but richer girls, while Lapa and Botafogo have more down to earth variety.

LOOKS
Rio is a beautiful city situated with mountainous landscapes and blessed with a gorgeous beach. Girls are beautiful as well, always dressed to the nines, refusing to leave the house without dressing up and slipping on their high heels. They take care of themselves, and expect the same from guys. So remember to be clean and dress well (no need to go overboard), and go to the gym if you can.

DIRECTNESS
Unlike in US or Europe, girls in Brazil play much less games. When approaching a girl, the girl will know very quickly if you're her type or not. If things are not moving forward within the first 10 minutes, it won't go anywhere. Just politely eject and keep going. Remember, each failure is not really a failure, it just means you\'re getting closer to success. If your not failing, then your not making progress.

BOLDNESS/THE KISS
If on the other hand, things are progressing nicely, you would expect to kiss. Wait for the right moment, don\'t rush it or force it. It may take an hour or the whole afternoon/night but you should definitely go for a kiss before the night ends. A kiss doesn't signify intimacy in Brazil, but kissing quickly is normal and is part of the mating ritual. If you get her number it's okay to call the next day and schedule a date for the following or same evening. You do not need to wait a few days like in US.

KEEP IT SIMPLE AND HAVE FUN
I know in the West, dinner and movie is often the norm. In Brazil, keep dates simple. Meet her at the beach, go for a drink at Devassa Bar in Ipanema. Go to a Hippie Fair in Ipanema on Sunday afternoons, or just grab a coconut juice on the beach. It doesn't need to be expensive or complicated. Often the cheaper the better.

You may also want to consider a place like Recife in the north - much less touristy and still plenty of lovely women. Also everything, including the women, will be cheaper in Recife which has a strong Portuguese influence.


Many guys get wrapped up in trying to attract the girl by impressing her. This wouldn't work in Brazil because above all Brazilian culture is extremely chill, and people value a relaxed atmosphere over a serious or deep conversation. So don't try too hard and just have a good time.

I know an Italian man who bought a house in the Cantagalo favela, located between Copacabana and Ipanema, for R$60,000 (about US$30,000), one room of which he rents out to foreign visitors for R$80/night.

Thanks iilovetofu all very informative!

ilovetofu wrote: Hi New1inch.

It's generally easy for a Western male to date in lower income countries, especially in Latin America. Being a Westerner automatically associates you with money, and of course its also a chance for the girl to obtain a visa back to the richer country. It also draws in girls who might be tired of the macho-infested culture and are eager for a change. This is certainly true all over Latin America. Except Brazil.

Some basic tips/info for you:

THE RULE
Brazilian girls usually fall into two camps, those who exclusively date Brazilian guys and those that have dated and are open to dating foreigners (gringos). This alone sets Brazil apart from the rest of Latin America. Signs that a girl is open to dating a gringo: she has lived/travelled abroad, she speaks great English, she had or has gringo friends, she hangs out in places where gringos go, etc.

GRINGO\'S
Unfortunately male gringos in Brazil have a somewhat negative reputation as prostitute seekers and exploiters of Brazil's natural resources (i.e., women). This creates a double standard. The girls are especially sensitive to such stereotypes, and as a result they will take any negative \"asshole-type\" behaviour very personally. Even a light tease that's culturally acceptable anywhere else can result in backlash, while the same behaviour from a Brazilian guy can be totally acceptable. This means in the initial encounter, refrain from any questionable teasing and keep things very friendly.

VENUE
If you go places that charge say a $50 cover, then you would expect to meet girls who are interested in meeting well-off guys. However, if you go to street parties and cheaper places, chances are the girls will be more down to earth. In Rio, Ipanema and Leblon have the most beautiful, but richer girls, while Lapa and Botafogo have more down to earth variety.

LOOKS
Rio is a beautiful city situated with mountainous landscapes and blessed with a gorgeous beach. Girls are beautiful as well, always dressed to the nines, refusing to leave the house without dressing up and slipping on their high heels. They take care of themselves, and expect the same from guys. So remember to be clean and dress well (no need to go overboard), and go to the gym if you can.

DIRECTNESS
Unlike in US or Europe, girls in Brazil play much less games. When approaching a girl, the girl will know very quickly if you're her type or not. If things are not moving forward within the first 10 minutes, it won't go anywhere. Just politely eject and keep going. Remember, each failure is not really a failure, it just means you\'re getting closer to success. If your not failing, then your not making progress.

BOLDNESS/THE KISS
If on the other hand, things are progressing nicely, you would expect to kiss. Wait for the right moment, don\'t rush it or force it. It may take an hour or the whole afternoon/night but you should definitely go for a kiss before the night ends. A kiss doesn't signify intimacy in Brazil, but kissing quickly is normal and is part of the mating ritual. If you get her number it's okay to call the next day and schedule a date for the following or same evening. You do not need to wait a few days like in US.

KEEP IT SIMPLE AND HAVE FUN
I know in the West, dinner and movie is often the norm. In Brazil, keep dates simple. Meet her at the beach, go for a drink at Devassa Bar in Ipanema. Go to a Hippie Fair in Ipanema on Sunday afternoons, or just grab a coconut juice on the beach. It doesn't need to be expensive or complicated. Often the cheaper the better.

You may also want to consider a place like Recife in the north - much less touristy and still plenty of lovely women. Also everything, including the women, will be cheaper in Recife which has a strong Portuguese influence.


Many guys get wrapped up in trying to attract the girl by impressing her. This wouldn't work in Brazil because above all Brazilian culture is extremely chill, and people value a relaxed atmosphere over a serious or deep conversation. So don't try too hard and just have a good time.

I know an Italian man who bought a house in the Cantagalo favela, located between Copacabana and Ipanema, for R$60,000 (about US$30,000), one room of which he rents out to foreign visitors for R$80/night.

To add to this great report, S.E. Asia (South East Asia) is an exact duplicate of what was said but for a couple of things.

The girl are smaller and slimmer, They DO get impressed easily and they tend to go for the richer \"looking\" guys. They like Westerners too, IF you are fugly but you have a very white skin, you can get girls that are stunning. IF you have good personality and are easy going, you will get tons of girls to love you, but at the end of the day, just like Most women everywhere in the world, they are looking for security: MONEY (just like men are looking for pussy)...So if you have common sense and are smart enough not to fall for their sweetness and their beauty, you will be fine.

The cost varies widely, If you get an escort girl from the streets it can be as low as $20 for a quicky (personally, I would never go with them). A bar girl will cost you about $100 for an overnight stay and as many \"bangs\" as you can deliver. A disco girl can be great. They are lower income to middle income girls looking to have some fun, you just have to pay for foods and drinks. Some of these girls are college graduates and they want to have some fun but at the same time if a guy is generous they will be very happy to accept \"donations\" to further support the education. But you have to be careful some of these\"disco\" girls can be from bars that closed early and hence you will get a \"bar\" girl. No problem with that, just know they will expect money from you at the end, certainly not some one you want to consider for any long term affair.

The last and the best option is to go to the fantastic shopping malls that they have. These malls are beautiful looking in and out and they are better than most malls in the US, but name brands are 2-3 times more than the US. These \"office/mall\" girls are great for a short or long time or a long distance relationships. Just remember if you go home, they WILL cheat on you. They cost few gifts, a little shopping and dinners and so on.

One thing to remember; you are in THEIR country, so don\'t expect Western values and you must respect their culture. Westerners have been chopped to pieces for been arrogant! Their legal system is so corrupt there will be no justice for sure..

So I have Read

At the end of the day, It is my belief that men everywhere in the world pay for sex one way or another.
I have actually calculated the cost of my 9 years of marriage and divorce and the amount of lousy infrequent sex with the same pussy for 9 years to be about $900 per intercourse! This was for sex only, not counting all other living expenses...

Live Long and Prosper

As a guy who has traveled to many countries I have to get in on this convo.... You may be putting way too much thought into this most likely because of your \"our\" American upbringing and totally screwed up idea about sex; mine was too. From my travels I have learned that American men \"not all\" are taught to be ashamed of their sexual needs and to do as they are told by their women folk. And to act like when they get married their cocks stop working unless its for their wives.. That\'s bulls$#* and I\'ve grown tired of meeting women who act like their vags are gold minds \"its not special and everyone woman has one\". So bottom line its just a nut and you don\'t have to travel too Asia or Brazil to have a crazy sex filled vacation; \"I\'ve done those and they are amazing, well they were 10yrs ago\" before the prices became insane and when discotec HELP was around. You can visit closer countries like Colombia \"Cartagenia\", Costa Rica \"Jaco\" or Dominican Republic \"everywhere\" to name some of my recent spots. My buddies and I travel often for boys weekends \"fishing trips\" and have a blast and come back with dry Balls; some of these guys head home to their wives. Culturally many of the women in the mentioned countries love a man who enjoys using his penis without being ashamed or made to feel guilty because he has needs. It\'s been many a time I have hooked u with a hottie from a club with \"no fee\" just because I\'m a black American and they see us so rarely. Also, your right to be worried about an arrest in the states for prostitution because that can destroy your life. Which is why when I party I don\'t buy the attention of women in the states because I have too much to lose and will not chance an arrest. But in the countries I\'ve mentioned and there are many many more, it\'s open season aka \"culturally\" for men to be men because it\'s their culture to be sexually open, unlike the American culture. If you need info, I have names of hotels and hot spots to go too in many countries where you could have an amazing \"sexual\" vacation and these aren\'t street walkers. Again, many of these countries are 3hrs away and a visit will change your idea and attitude about sex and maybe even your manhood all together. Example: there is a club in Jaco, Costa Rico that has hundreds of girls standing around a pool for your choosing and all you see is groups of American men on \"fishing trips\" having a blast before they head home. I went with my Italian buddy, his father in his mid 60\'s and another buddy; so it was four of us. The older of the group had a few of the blue pills and was still going at it when the rest of us went to bed. As we laughed and joked at our older partner, he said the most profound thing when we asked what was he going to do with all of these women; he said, I\'m going to f$@k them, I\'m a man and that\'s my job!

So bro... goooo and have fun.. It\'s a big world

Hey thanks uptownblk it\'s really refreshing to hear your point of view because I dont know how women from other countries receive black men and that could be scary for a first timer as myself. I\'m definitely leaning toward Columbia or DR.. I\'m not into Asian chicks at all, but that seems to be the trend on this site. Anyway though I\'ll definately take you up on that offer to pick your brain for hotel spots. Maybe a PM. I Already applied for my passport and looking to get my PMMA done early April and want to be deep in some exotic pussy mid to late May.

New1inch wrote: Hey thanks uptownblk it\'s really refreshing to hear your point of view because I dont know how women from other countries receive black men and that could be scary for a first timer as myself. I\'m definitely leaning toward Columbia or DR.. I\'m not into Asian chicks at all, but that seems to be the trend on this site. Anyway though I\'ll definately take you up on that offer to pick your brain for hotel spots. Maybe a PM. I Already applied for my passport and looking to get my PMMA done early April and want to be deep in some exotic pussy mid to late May.

I haven\'t done it myself, but I have a friend that uses an escort review site. The great thing about this is that you pretty much know what you\'ll be getting beforehand, you know the girl is legit, so there\'s little chance of getting caught, and you can find girls that offer a GFE (girlfriend experience).

slk20003 wrote:

New1inch wrote: Hey thanks uptownblk it\'s really refreshing to hear your point of view because I dont know how women from other countries receive black men and that could be scary for a first timer as myself. I\'m definitely leaning toward Columbia or DR.. I\'m not into Asian chicks at all, but that seems to be the trend on this site. Anyway though I\'ll definately take you up on that offer to pick your brain for hotel spots. Maybe a PM. I Already applied for my passport and looking to get my PMMA done early April and want to be deep in some exotic pussy mid to late May.

I haven\'t done it myself, but I have a friend that uses an escort review site. The great thing about this is that you pretty much know what you\'ll be getting beforehand, you know the girl is legit, so there\'s little chance of getting caught, and you can find girls that offer a GFE (girlfriend experience).

I know exactly the one your talking about. I joined a month ago. Some of the chicks think their pussy is made of gold though. $400 for an hour? F**K that! lol.. But their are some a little more affordable that i find on there.

come down to Miami and you\'ll have sex like crazy, pussy is everywhere man. Also, try www.pof.com I met lots of women there, I met one that wanted just straight casual encounter, not attachments just casual sex.

My best advice, go to the gym, change your body, try to improve your looks try to look hot and women will chase you. The biggest pick up line I have is my own smile, so white looking teeth is a plus!!. You need to go out, go to strip clubs, clubs, bars with friends, talk to women so that approaching them becomes natural to you.