TOPIC: What do women do that turn you on the most? I need some advice....

hoddle10 wrote:

Lilaforlife wrote: Good god. You men are so suspicious all the time! What you stated is true. My sex drive is high, anyone who knows me knows thats a fact. My husbands sex drive is lower than mine although I don\'t see why that raises suspicion. It\'s more annoying than an thing. I have a profile pic of my upper body not just boobs, and thats because thats the kind of pics everyone has on here. I could have posted one of another women but that would just be really weird seeing as I am indeed a woman. A face one would do but I\'m not sure I want that on PhalloBoards lol. If it bothers you I\'ll take it down and put up something else! I post a fair amount because I have questions and don\'t want to leave research to google alone. I find the best advice comes from forums and real people not testimonials. I\'ll let you all know how that chat session goes with Dr. L. I really hope my husband decides he wants someone else. Ps. None of you men have actually given me advice about what to do about my husband so thanks for that lol...

I find it hard to believe you don\'t see what I\'m getting at. You\'ve come along, said you husband has a small penis (on a site where guys think penis size is a massive deal and many now have a very big penis), that he isn\'t very interested in sex, but you have a very high sex drive and are crazy in bed. You\'ve also posted a cleavage photo (shown below.) You say it\'s your upper body, but that suggests you are being disingenuous and trying to play naive, as you aren\'t wearing a jumper. You are wearing a revealing top. Are you seriously trying to say I\'m wrong in suggesting that photo isn\'t meant to highlight your tits?

So far your posting, does seem a bit alluring, almost predatory. You can say things like \"you men are suspicious all the time\", but lets cut the crap here, most women would be suspicious of your actions also.

No matter what your intentions, innocent or not, surely you can see what I mean? I don\'t think I\'m being at all paranoid. If you look at things objectively and review the information you\'ve posted and then consider your profile photo, is it really surprising to read posts like Kawkaw\'s? I find it hard to believe you weren\'t soliciting those kind of reactions and I don\'t think that\'s in the least bit unreasonable of me to say so.



I stress I\'m not saying you aren\'t welcome or anything like that. But come on, you must see what I mean.

I'm not saying that my breasts are not the highlight of that picture. All I said was that they are not the ONLY thing in the picture. i.e upper body. I do like my breasts in that picture and I thought it fit in well with everyone elses'. I'm not going to post a picture of some girl with sweet tits as my profile pic when I have my own'.This forum is not the place for a nice picture of me smiling at the camera so I'm sorry if my pic came off as 'predatory\". I meant what I said. I think men on here are more suspicious then most of the men I know. Rightfully so after what you all think Dr. L did on here. That does not mean that I agree that my actions seem suspicious. It does however mean I take understanding with some of the reactions Ive gotten. Look I came on here to do research on behalf of my husband, I got interested in some of the posts and commented on a few things, and eventually felt comfortable to ask for some advice which so far only one person has given to me. For future reference if you want women to feel welcome try a different approach

Lilaforlife wrote:

hoddle10 wrote:

Lilaforlife wrote: Good god. You men are so suspicious all the time! What you stated is true. My sex drive is high, anyone who knows me knows thats a fact. My husbands sex drive is lower than mine although I don\'t see why that raises suspicion. It\'s more annoying than an thing. I have a profile pic of my upper body not just boobs, and thats because thats the kind of pics everyone has on here. I could have posted one of another women but that would just be really weird seeing as I am indeed a woman. A face one would do but I\'m not sure I want that on PhalloBoards lol. If it bothers you I\'ll take it down and put up something else! I post a fair amount because I have questions and don\'t want to leave research to google alone. I find the best advice comes from forums and real people not testimonials. I\'ll let you all know how that chat session goes with Dr. L. I really hope my husband decides he wants someone else. Ps. None of you men have actually given me advice about what to do about my husband so thanks for that lol...

I find it hard to believe you don\'t see what I\'m getting at. You\'ve come along, said you husband has a small penis (on a site where guys think penis size is a massive deal and many now have a very big penis), that he isn\'t very interested in sex, but you have a very high sex drive and are crazy in bed. You\'ve also posted a cleavage photo (shown below.) You say it\'s your upper body, but that suggests you are being disingenuous and trying to play naive, as you aren\'t wearing a jumper. You are wearing a revealing top. Are you seriously trying to say I\'m wrong in suggesting that photo isn\'t meant to highlight your tits?

So far your posting, does seem a bit alluring, almost predatory. You can say things like \"you men are suspicious all the time\", but lets cut the crap here, most women would be suspicious of your actions also.

No matter what your intentions, innocent or not, surely you can see what I mean? I don\'t think I\'m being at all paranoid. If you look at things objectively and review the information you\'ve posted and then consider your profile photo, is it really surprising to read posts like Kawkaw\'s? I find it hard to believe you weren\'t soliciting those kind of reactions and I don\'t think that\'s in the least bit unreasonable of me to say so.



I stress I\'m not saying you aren\'t welcome or anything like that. But come on, you must see what I mean.

I'm not saying that my breasts are not the highlight of that picture. All I said was that they are not the ONLY thing in the picture. i.e upper body. I do like my breasts in that picture and I thought it fit in well with everyone elses'. I'm not going to post a picture of some girl with sweet tits as my profile pic when I have my own'.This forum is not the place for a nice picture of me smiling at the camera so I'm sorry if my pic came off as 'predatory\". I meant what I said. I think men on here are more suspicious then most of the men I know. Rightfully so after what you all think Dr. L did on here. That does not mean that I agree that my actions seem suspicious. It does however mean I take understanding with some of the reactions Ive gotten. Look I came on here to do research on behalf of my husband, I got interested in some of the posts and commented on a few things, and eventually felt comfortable to ask for some advice which so far only one person has given to me. For future reference if you want women to feel welcome try a different approach

You\'d don\'t have to have a profile photo. Most people don\'t. Virtually no one posts a photo of themselves. Yours looks like a \"hook up\" site photo. I\'m not trying to be rude, but it is a bit flirtatious. You can\'t deny that. The other cleavage shot in members profiles are posted by men, of women they don\'t know. Your cleavage shot is your own, so surely you can see what you\'ve done isn\'t really in keeping with the rest of the profile photos on the site. I\'m not saying it\'s inappropriate or that you take it down, but simply your motivation for posting it, is very different to when our male members post photos of racks they like. When you combine that with the fact that among your posts, there is a narrative that reads like a typical board housewife porn story, it does seem suspicious.

These are all things you\'ve posted on a website, full of young, horny guys, who put huge emphasis on being able to satisfy women and the size of their penis:

\"I have a sex drive to rival them all. In fact its higher than any female Ive ever met and higher than most males Ive encountered as well. He however, has a drastically lower sex drive than me.... Ie I would do it a few times a day minimum and he would prefer to do it once every few months if it was up to him.\"

\"Most women like how a bigger Dick looks aesthetically and definitely get turned on by the visual stimulation.\"

\"Almost all the women I know think Dick picks are gross and rude, excluding me because I love them haha.\"

\"I\'m an attractive person. Not being vain or anything but its true. I got looked at all the time but never by my husband. If he had allowed me to I would have had sex as many times as he would let me.\"

\" I almost always look and it\'s unfortunate for me because whenever I do look, even if its for a quick second, I turn all pink cheeked and get this cheesy smile on my face haha. \"

\"I just got turned down by my husband for like the third time today and I\'m just so tired of it.... I\'m not a boring person in bed. I am the absolute definition of lady in the streets freak in the sheets. I\'m constantly thinking of new ways to spice up our love life but I feel like there has to be something Im missing.... Here are a few examples of what I do on a regular basis for him. Im a really enthusiastic lover. If I like it you\'ll know and it will be loud lol. I have a stripper pole in the bedroom, give him lap dances every week, walk around naked, give him head like its my job, own 27 different pieces of lingerie (he told me recently he doesn\'t like lingerie so that\'s just great...) I take care of myself. I\'m a stylist at a high end salon so I\'m usually dressed to the 9\'s, and even when I\'m not I don\'t look bad without makeup... I just don\'t know what to do. For the past 9 years we\'ve been having sex like once a month or 2. I could have sex like 3 times a day.\"

You are 24, so you can\'t even claim to be naive to how young men think. If we ignore the stuff about researching your husbands procedure, isn\'t it fair to say the back drop to your posting is that you are young, attractive, with huge sex drive, dance on a stripper pole, wear lots of sexy lingerie, give blow jobs all the time and even look good without make up, yet are left sexually unsatisfied by your husband who has a small penis? And if that doesn\'t sound enticing enough, you\'ve posted a cleavage shot!

When you look it at like that, which is exactly how it comes across, do you still not think you actions are suspicious? Surely you can see why I suspect some trolling going on here?

Lilaforlife wrote: ... I meant what I said. I think men on here are more suspicious then most of the men I know. Rightfully so after what you all think Dr. L did on here. That does not mean that I agree that my actions seem suspicious. It does however mean I take understanding with some of the reactions Ive gotten. Look I came on here to do research on behalf of my husband, I got interested in some of the posts and commented on a few things, and eventually felt comfortable to ask for some advice which so far only one person has given to me. For future reference if you want women to feel welcome try a different approach

It might be abit more than \'think\'

Please take a step back and look at this from an objective point of view. This is a forum dedicated to penile operations primarily to enhance penis size. Many men who have issues with their penis size google remedies for what they believe to be a small penis and will come across this forum. Many of these operations carry risks with them, some quite serious, not to mention the existence of relatively unqualified or downright careless surgeons only concerned with getting men under their knife for that pay cheque. With this in mind, it is incredibly important that the community here vets anyone suspicious, so that those with ill intentions are banished accordingly.

Previous posters have outlined why you are suspicious. It\'s not so much your actions, but who you claim to be. We\'d all honestly love to have a women\'s perspective on PB, but at the same time, this is a forum surrounding penile surgery, we understand that barely any women have much of a reason to be here. Don\'t misinterpret what\'s happening here, many male posters here also face fierce criticism if they appear suspicious and rightly so. It\'s a necessary evil to ensure a clean and supportive forum.

I imagine some men join female-oriented forums under the guise of a woman with not so honourable intentions and that those communities are equally wary of such users.

Don\'t take it personally

hoddle10 wrote: Am I the only one who is seriously suspicious here? Lila\'s posts suggest she has a very high sex drive, her husband isn\'t that interested and her profile photo is of her cleavage. I find it very odd that a woman would go to the effort of uploading a profile photo for the sake of asking a few questions on behalf of her husband and ever odder than it\'s a cleavage shot.

Sorry if you are genuine Lila, but if you are, you\'d have to admit your photo and subsequent posting does raise a few red flags. I\'m pretty sure we are being trolled here.

You are not the only one Hoddle...

Let\'s see how long it will last. Like S.O. said, it will be good for her and for us if she has the Balls to hangs around. I suspect not.

Is there anyone here who truly bought into this?
I hve to admit though, I love these silly diversions occasionally

It looks like she deleted \"her\" account.

I\'m quite curious to hear what other members made of this. I didn\'t want to seem harsh on her, but I wasn\'t being overly paranoid was I? For want of a better phrase, but her posts did kind of seem as if she was \"cruising for Cock.\" When that happens, it\'s got to be some kind of troll right? She kept saying that she was trying to get her husband to read the forum, but why would she want him to read the stuff she\'s posted? When not asking about the procedure, she was mainly talking about herself in a sexually alluring way, whilst saying her husband wasn\'t interested and had a small Cock. Who\'d want their husband to read that!

I\'d be generally interested what our non-moderator members think. Was she for real or a troll?

at first i thought she was real, but then i started to think it is a dr loria shill using some new tactic, by making it seem she is against him and points out the things we already know about him, but her husband get the procedure done anyway (against everyones advice) and has amazing results, and then is like he is an amazing doctor. (?)

If a shill is persistent enough, he or she will learn to evolve. For a shill to crack the scrutinizing magnifying glass of this forum, its Mods & Veterans, he/she has to try innovative & unconventional methods to avoid red flags. If Lila was a shill, she\'d represent the level of shilling required to breach the skepticism of some of us here. And even then, red flags were everywhere.

What newer/lesser familiar members should know is that this forum has dealt with a HISTORY of shills, fake accounts, etc. It is against forum rules, but more importantly, why would a credible, ethical physician need to employ fake testimonials to drum up business? It\'s even worse when some of these doctors do so while pushing experimental and risky procedures (the kind with complications that can jeopardize the very function of your penis) on their prospective clients. Not sure how many newer/lesser familiar readers here really know what the Moderation team has done to stamp out garbage that could have lead them down more dangerous, regrettable paths.

That all said, I ask members to give the Moderation team the benefit of the doubt when it comes to unusual members. If these members in question check out, we\'ll know in time. Likewise, if they are a shill, their true colors will eventually show. I don\'t think Hoddle was paranoid at all. All valid points raised. Then in a separate thread she claims that her husband had a conference call with Dr. Loria and only asked him one question: prices. Really? You can get that info off his website. What about all the serious questions that have been voiced repeatedly on this forum but have never been sufficiently addressed by the Good Doctor?

Suffice it to say, we can\'t say for certain what Lila\'s motives were (innocent or otherwise), but I don\'t think we approached her membership in any sort of unfair way. But Hoddle asked for non-Moderator\'s opinions, I just wanted to chime in for perspective\'s sake. Would still like to hear other opinions for those who have followed this thread/situation.

I had an 80% feeling it was fake. If you go back and read my comments you will see I was poking at the writer. I say the writer because I also think it was a him not a her. If it was a her and was real, then she must have been 200 lbs and wanted to live in a fantasy world to get guys in a PE forum to believe and drool over her fake picture....

The biggest give away was that it stayed with him for 9 years even though he has no sex drive, and it also talked about loria 99% of the time and almost never mentioned Dr C in a fair and balanced matter..

After that, for me, it was all down hill for \"it\"

Is her account really deleted? I think shill but... strange one... I\'ve dated women nearly like that a few times, they do exist but it comes with a price

I usually stay out of calling out shills and what not... I was extremely close this time... Right from the start \"she\" didn\'t seem right.