TOPIC: Messageman Got Dumped

Thanks again guys
PM Mustang....
And New1inch...thanks very much for sharing..
This board has really come through for me!

Brother, I filed for divorce 4 months ago. I managed to reconcile with my wife. I know exactly what you\'re going through. I\'m here if you need me. I\'m going to PM you my phone number if you ever want to talk. Worst feeling in the world. Chin up brother, I got your back.

I agree with new1inch, no contact and work focus on yourself. It sucks how we can care for people and want them even if they treat us poorly.
I was wondering why Miracle hadn\'t posted in a while. I had hoped it was because he was enjoying life . It saddens me to read about the marriage trouble

Marriage is rock solid again. Took a lot of work and more importantly, time. I learned a lot from my spouse in the process.

Messageman: The best, of course, to you!

messageman wrote: Thanks again guys PM Mustang.... And New1inch...thanks very much for sharing.. This board has really come through for me!

Just got your PM buddy, hang in there. You are a handsome man with GIANT Dick in Asia there are thousands, and I mean thousands, of girls who will love you and treat you like the king that you are...Just Don\'t be a wuss, DO NOT treat them like you treat western women...

I\'ll PM asap....boy are you going to get it....LOL

Messageman, I was with the most beautiful girl last year, until it went wrong. I dumped her out, acting like a gentleman, but it was hard. During 3 months I fucked around just trying to forget her ( not easy, she was a model and there are pictures of her here and there appearing, darn!). I was desperate.
Fast forward, in March I met a delicious woman, younger and smarter, kinder, and overall much better. She is also a model but not in the same league though, and I have to admit that I dont have this amazing feeling when I do her, that I had with the other one who was just physically perfect. That being said, when I am with her I feel perfectly happy and myself. So, 90% of the time it is better and when we have sex (10% of the time) wrll its good but not as good.
I never thought I could be this happy with a woman. In fact I never thought I would fall in love again. I thought I was through with it.
So when I think about the supermodel, well, I don\'t even regret her because the girl I am with now is so much better.
My conclusion : the best is always waiting for you, particularly when you expect it the least.

Obsessed wrote: Messageman, I was with the most beautiful girl last year, until it went wrong. I dumped her out, acting like a gentleman, but it was hard. During 3 months I fucked around just trying to forget her ( not easy, she was a model and there are pictures of her here and there appearing, darn!). I was desperate. Fast forward, in March I met a delicious woman, younger and smarter, kinder, and overall much better. She is also a model but not in the same league though, and I have to admit that I dont have this amazing feeling when I do her, that I had with the other one who was just physically perfect. That being said, when I am with her I feel perfectly happy and myself. So, 90% of the time it is better and when we have sex (10% of the time) wrll its good but not as good. I never thought I could be this happy with a woman. In fact I never thought I would fall in love again. I thought I was through with it. So when I think about the supermodel, well, I don\'t even regret her because the girl I am with now is so much better. My conclusion : the best is always waiting for you, particularly when you expect it the least.

Interesting that you was able to pull 2 models. Are you looks above average? Or is it money or some type of power you have in your industry?

I\'d like to thank you all again for the overwhelming support. It\'s made thinngs a lot easier.
And Mustang...ya, I figured you might not be overly sympathetic...I look forward to the message brother.

@ Miracle

Glad to see you back, and glad to hear there was a resolution to your marital issues. May explain your absence, but for all the right reasons...repairing the home & family take priority above all. Sincerely hope the reconciliation endures a lifetime!

@Messageman

It\'s rough. I had one relationship that was real, involved, and for more years than I care to admit. When things weren\'t working, it was then I began to question what I could do to win her back, and it ate at me, causing bouts of depression, self-doubt, etc. Looking back on it, I realized that we\'re not always capable of seeing the incompatibilities that our partners are capable of seeing, making a breakup so difficult to comprehend. And many times, women are just as confused themselves, either not knowing what they want, or knowing what they want and incapable of communicating it.

From what you\'ve shared, you\'ll have to take into account that she\'s young and probably naive, her emotions are evolving, her moods are swinging, and she\'s concluded she\'s not looking for something so serious as to justify an indefinite relationship. The only issue here is that you may have gotten more emotionally involved than you intended/anticipated...let\'s not forget you did put an ad up blatantly soliciting casual sex. At no fault of your own (or hers), things grew, especially on you. Naturally, like I know all too well, the breakup blues is something you\'ll have to get through, but when you look back on this all, you\'ll have learned something that will help you better gauge future prospects.

Sorry to hear about the pain, heartbreak sucks. Sucks so much that it\'s possibly stunted my own ability to invest emotions. Hope that doesn\'t happen to you from here on out. We all grow from our experiences. You\'ll always have our understanding, the PB community, fraternity, cromradery, brotherhood.

Hi guys
Thanks SO...And (again) thanks everybody for the support. It is so therapeutic to share when grieving. All of you have had great advice, which I truly have taken to .

She called me a few days after she dumped me to \"just say hi\". She came over to my place and we watched the DVD \"This is the End\" (with Seth Rogan) together. What a fitting title for the last DVD we would ever watch together.

She slept in my bed but we didn\'t make love. I told her that I couldn\'t see her anymore if we were just going to be \"friends\"....i couldn\'t do it. I meant it....
She went home and we exchanged a few messages...but in the end, it was decided we would never contact each other again...

I am still heartbroken but it\'s getting better little by little....I haven\'t had my broken in so long, I completely forgot how horrible it truly is. I don\'t know if it is the thought of never being with her again or the idea that I was \'rejected\' that stings more. I have lost about 5 pounds even though I am trying to eat as much as possible. \"One foot in front of the other\" is what I keep repeating to myself.
As Neil Young wrote...\"Only Love Can Break Your Heart.\" SO TRUE...
But this is all part of life and most of us. (If not all) have experienced it (or will experience it).
Everybody\'s words of wisdom and encouragement have been an integral part of my recovery.
Thanks!
Messageman

Found this thread while searching for the rest of your \"Journey\" story.

For what it\'s worth, I lived overseas many years ago and the Asian chicks know how to play games very well. It sounds to me that you were the one who broke up with her when you offered her some time to spend apart. So you were the one in control. But a woman spited will do exactly what she did. My ex wife did just that too. Tried to reconcile, but she wouldn\'t consider it and reveled in the suffering she saw in me.

I hope after these past few months that you are finally feeling better, as time does heal. She was not worth it, and the universe protected you from her future mind games, as you saw how she already knows how to play them, just like she knew how to take a huge Dick as a virgin. You\'ll find the one meant for you sometime, or at least wait in joyful hope.

Bow wow.

Messageman and m7

I dont even know how you dudes stay in a committed relationship with whats Hanging between your legs. I\'m in my mid twenties and maybe that has to do with it, but If I was packing like either of you, I\'d be looking to test drive every decent looking girl in sight.

I have a serious girlfriend now whom I love very much. Shes awesome and it hurts me to say but If I woke up one morning and looked down to see a 7 x 5.5, It would be the last time she ever saw me. Relationships havent always been that important to me though. I\'d rather be a nomad with a big Dick that travels and fucks over having a nice house full of kids and a loving wife.

jd123 wrote: I\'d rather be a nomad with a big Dick that travels and fucks over having a nice house full of kids and a loving wife.

To each his own.

Both lifestyles have merit; each with pros and cons. I hear cute girls talking about wanting a big D sometimes and since they know I\'m married, we talk openly. They\'ve shown me what they estimate to be the biggest they\'ve ever had and I just nod my head. I\'m easily the biggest ANY girl is likely to encounter... Ever. I still look like I\'m in my early 30\'s, am attractive and my salary is in the top 6%. I\'m also very skilled in the sack due to years of being deformed by Peyronies. I AM an exceptional lover. To be so well endowed is icing on the cake. I can\'t deny the temptation that can arise. With high T, my blood literally feels like it\'s boiling sometimes when I see a twenty-something with a bubble booty. I love my wife though. If I lost it all, I would still have her by my side. To her credit, she can deepthroat my 8x7.5.