TOPIC: swinging and Orgies

I have no issue if my wife genuinely wants some Dick variety, I just don\'t like the power structure of the swinger scene. There\'s way too many guys who end up not getting as much ass as their wives get new Dick. It\'s all slanted. There\'s tons of stuff online where guys are lamenting swinging because their wives end up getting fucked but they as guys all too often don\'t because most of the women in the swinging scene aren\'t as into fucking other guys as they are fucking other women or who are just so picky they rarely fuck the guy from the other couple, but if your wife is down, she\'s always getting fucked.

No, I would say if my wife wants Dick variety I am 100 percent cool with it, but I\'ll be free to shop for top quality ass at a bar or club then. That\'s the only way I see it as equal. Maybe it\'s just a dominance thing with me, but I like to be able to game females on the open range, not in a closed system where women with all their needs met are walking around an all you can eat buffet. It\'s just unnatural to me.

Convince me I\'m wrong though.

Dance With Dragons wrote: I have no issue if my wife genuinely wants some Dick variety, I just don\'t like the power structure of the swinger scene. There\'s way too many guys who end up not getting as much ass as their wives get new Dick. It\'s all slanted. There\'s tons of stuff online where guys are lamenting swinging because their wives end up getting fucked but they as guys all too often don\'t because most of the women in the swinging scene aren\'t as into fucking other guys as they are fucking other women or who are just so picky they rarely fuck the guy from the other couple, but if your wife is down, she\'s always getting fucked.

No, I would say if my wife wants Dick variety I am 100 percent cool with it, but I\'ll be free to shop for top quality ass at a bar or club then. That\'s the only way I see it as equal. Maybe it\'s just a dominance thing with me, but I like to be able to game females on the open range, not in a closed system where women with all their needs met are walking around an all you can eat buffet. It\'s just unnatural to me.

Convince me I\'m wrong though.

You\'re wrong buddy.

There\'s a phrase in the lifestyle and it goes like this....

\"We won\'t take one for the team\"

Meaning the couple you play with, will each be considered attractive by both you and your wife. If one of you is not attracted to the other person then you simply do not play with them.

It is difficult to find a couple that you both will agree on but that is the fairest way to play.

It also makes the most sense.


There are Horry stories like what you have mentioned though. Just discuss what you both expect, openly and honestly

thehulk wrote: You\'re wrong buddy. There\'s a phrase in the lifestyle and it goes like this.... \"We won\'t take one for the team\"

^^^Truth^^^

Look on any swinger board and the majority of the couples profiles that that exact phrase on it.