TOPIC: How big Penisses are + how big Women like them to be

Lexus27 wrote: The most craziest talk I\'ve heard on this board is from the men who at the beginning was searching to enlarge their dicks then after being successful or a failure at it turn around and criticize the men who want too do the same thing.

chester wrote: That\'s not always crazy talk, Lexus. It can be valid criticism, which is what a forum is for. We discuss things, learn about them, and progress accordingly. It\'s how knowledge is gained. When someone doesn\'t agree with your viewpoint, it doesn\'t make them crazy. You\'ve been a bit all over the board on this thread, firstly supporting the importance of Dick size over other important aspects of courtship, to flip flopping on that view, to unnecessarily escalating with a well-intending moderator, to now (seemingly) adopting a \"que ser'\" stance. To clarify, I\'m not attacking you. I\'m trying to show you the value of community discussion. You may start out with one view, and thanks to both supportive and dissenting voices, you may wind up with another. Sometimes you wind up smarter and wiser for it.

Lexus27 wrote: No matter what you say is going too change my thoughts.....Every body on this site has the ability to change there current situation if they don\'t like...what your saying is irrelevant.... you signed up a little over a year ago....I\'ve been on thundersplace, mattersofsize and other boards so there\'s nothing you can tell me...

Bolkonsky wrote: Damn chester. that was very reasonable and well said. You are an incredible value to this forum. Its clear that you care and are looking out. I wish that I could have an impact on others like that.

Unforturnatly i\'m a douche. I disagree man I\'ve been with plenty of beautiful women and lots of ugly ones too. And bigger is better. To an inexperienced woman a 7 Inch penis is big. But to a woman in her 30\'s a 7 Inch penis is more along the lines of average. And yea she would prefer a 8 Inch penis unless she has an extra sensitive cervix.

I think a major point in the LENGTH issue is the cervix. Some men know how to avoid it. Some women hate it hit some women like it hit, some women like it rubbed. Some women have a difficult time getting their cervix to \'tent\' (if you dont know what this means please ask) and other women have an easy time getting their cervix to tent allowing them to take a much longer penis.

Women are so different. Each one.

A longer penis means sex is easier and more diversity in positions, Also its a major psychological and visceral turn on for women. Not all women, but most.

Most men with a 5 -6 Inch Dick know they are on the small size. I used to be 6\'\'ish and always knew i was inadequite down there... So i did something about it, And I can tell a huge difference. HUGE. I understand women so much better know that i\'m longer and thicker.. I think i have room for a more refined opinion here.

I\'m not saying that you need a big Dick. I know you dont. I know its really way way down on the list of shit that is important to a woman, especially if the dude is awesome in bed and willing to go the extra mile.

but lets all be real here. Women prefer a big ass Dick.

hoddle10 wrote: In my experience women love a rock hard penis and for the guy to be seriously turned on. Many guys here suffer with size based insecurities. So the confidence they gain from being bigger and the belief women will really like their size, will make them much better in bed. If you think a woman really wants a big penis and believe you have one than it is bound to be very arousing and should lead to better sexual performance. You\'ll be rock hard and really into the sex. If you are nervous about your size and don\'t believe you can pleasure the woman as much as bigger men, this will reflect in your performance.

That\'s an extremely accurate analysis, for me at least anyway

Bolkonsky wrote: Unforturnatly i\'m a douche.

Friend face wrote: 6.5-8 Inch and 6 Inch Girth is what i think oh and you must be rock hard

ilovetofu wrote: this is what one female porn star has to say:
If there is anything I've learned from my job, it's that a person's physical anatomy has very little to do with how much fun you can have in bed together. Also, there are many reasons why an average penis can be a good thing.First, the majority of those giant penises that you see in porn are not fun to have sex with. When I get on set with a guy with a 10 Inch Cock, I'm like, 'oh Jesus, how is this going to work?' It usually takes a lot of patience and deep breathing.Second, while I sometimes enjoy the feeling of a lot of penetration (a feeling that can be achieved just as easily with toys or hands), penetration in itself is not what makes me orgasm. This is true, I think, for most women. I get the most turned on by sex that is creative and dynamic ' I like dirty talk, attentive touching, oral sex, and finger penetration much more than simply being pounded by a large appendage. I mean, I like penises, but I think there is this myth that heterosexual sex is supposed to begin and end with the Cock. There's just so much more to it. I think that whole big-Cock mythology is pretty silly.

ilovetofu wrote: Here is another women speaking candidly:I was 19 years old and had my legs spread on my new boyfriend Greg's bed. We had been dating for a few weeks and had fooled around a bit, mostly talking dirty and dry humping while clothed. It was my last night in town before leaving for a three-month study abroad program and it was pretty much a given that Greg and I would do it. He invited me over to his Park Slope apartment, we listened to music, ate pizza, and he went down on me on his balcony. It was all pretty steamy until Greg took off his boxers to reveal his wood. At the time, I hadn't seen too many penises, but now, after many years on the sex scene, I am aware that it was of the unprecedented, porn star variety. When I saw Greg's humongo dong coming toward my petite, fairly inexperienced vagina ' it had to have been at least 15 inches long, not exaggerating, and it was also extremely thick ' I instinctually knew that it was way too big for me. I didn't want to hurt Greg's feelings since I cared about him, but there was no way that his freight train was getting into my tiny tunnel. So what did I do? I started to sob.'What's wrong?' Greg asked, concerned. 'I just can't,' whimpering my only explanation. That was the last time Greg and I were naked together.Too bad I blew that one, but I learned an important life lesson: Big d**k is not for me. In fact, I hate big d**k. For all those men out there who think size matters and that big d**k is king, I want you to know, bigger is not always better, as far as I am concerned. I know that you can't control your penis size and if you have a big one, good for you, but I don't want it anywhere near any of my orifices.Every time I see a guy naked for the first time, I have a moment of panic. I hold my breath praying that it won't be a 'Greg' situation. When you like someone, you like him 'as is,' big or little peen and all, and you have to accept whatever is south of the border. But I do have preferences.Please don't super-size me, just give me a medium ' or even a small! As long as I can feel it in there, we're all good. In my book, a reasonably sized penis means more blow jobs, possible anal, a variety of positions, less pain, and more orgasms!All I can focus on when banging a man with a huge ween is how angry my cervix must be with me. I can't stand the feeling of a bulky, intrusive object squishing my uterus and abdominal cavity into oblivion. I hate feeling sore in places that even my gynecologist doesn't venture to with the speculum. For me, every sex act with a big dong is always the same ' uncomfortable. During sex I usually end up closing my eyes and hoping they come quickly because I certainly won't. Anal? Not even going there. And can we talk about big boy BJs? I can barely breathe and my jaw hurts afterward. It's like drowning in a sea of dong.I certainly don't want to hurt the feelings of the well-endowed menfolk of the world. It's just that some vaginas, like mine, are too small for all of your man glory. There are certainly women out there who have bigger vaginas or even smaller vaginas that enjoy the feeling of your giganto peen impaling their cervix. A small penis for them is like throwing a hot dog down a hallway. But for me, small d**k is pure heaven.

ilovetofu wrote: these comments are from thegloss.com: \"Hmm, I\'ve really only been with one man who certifiably actually needed the Magnums, and some positions I just had to stop him. Can\'t stand the banging against my cervix! And I don\'t think he particularly enjoyed pounding up on the little wiry string from my IUD. But the Girth is where it\'s at. Every once since him, I\'ve found myself a little disappointed in the Girth.\"---
\"Width is where it\'s at for me...the wider the guy, the easier it is to stimulate the G spot. I don\'t like having my cervix bumped at all, so if a guy is longer than average (like my bf), we need a lot of lube!\"
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\"Well, sometimes I think it\'s not the size but the guy who has it. I\'ve dated different size guys, and I can tell you I had one who was bigger than the average and it was ok, but after him I dated a guy who was really smaller than average and sex with him was great. I guess it was because he knew how to please me and, well it was not only great, it was amazing!\"
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\"In an ideal world I\'d prefer a slightly larger than average member. But at the end of the day, I don\'t really care, as long as it\'s healthy and hard.\"