TOPIC: increasingly desperate

I hate to sound like a fool, but perhaps it\'s confidence you lack, and not a big penis. Your penis stats sound fine man! Sure, I\'m on here for the same reason, so I can\'t judge, but a little confidence goes a long way; just saying. You\'re worried about something that hasn\'t happened yet, according to what you wrote ( girl might laugh because of your build). Shit, if I worried about what could happen in my life, I wouldn\'t leave the house! Read the forums front to back, and upside down, before you rush into a procedure. Make sure it\'s right for you. Do your research. All the best.

@ virgin age 29
I think you needn\'t worry so much, assuredly due to your apparently muscular physique you get the sense you\'re not a match in the pants. But you\'re quite normal for sure. I had your same Girth measurements only it is a good bit shorter, making possibly less of an impression of thin proportions? So I can understand that the visual impact might bother you, but I had two hundred girls test it before any changes were made (done 3 weeks ago) and none ever complained.
So I would try to think hard and long, no pun intended, on the real reasons for which you haven\'t been intimate sexually, it might have to do with more than size issues but something else entirely? Sure extra Girth is fine and dandy, but it isn\'t sufficient in any way to establish that close intimacy which leads to love making.
You can easily benefit from PMMA Girth enhancement if you conclude that it is really this perception of your anatomy which alone blocks your rapports. This would the perhaps work wonders, restoring confidence and allowing you at last to open up and become vulnerable. For nothing makes us more vulnerable than being led by the Dick... lol
HC

Yes, it\'s a mental issue as well. But I\'m hoping with 2-3 PMMA treatments I can get over this.

@virgin age 29
Depending upon what makes you tick you may find that multiple sessions are not necessary. I can attest that a single one even at low ebb during the subsequent healing can make a huge difference in one\'s outlook. The very act of taking charge of something which has become the focus point of one\'s central preoccupations is a major empowerment.
Cheers,
HC

It\'s odd. It\'s affected my mental well-being for so long and yet it was not until this year that I became able to consciously address the issue- it was always there at the back of my mind though. If I can get this and feel happy with my outcome it will completely change my outlook on life.

No. This is my opinion. Ultimately, the decision is yours as to what route you take. You can do permanent damage to your penis.

Had a similar idea when I was body building as a teenager and during my younger 20s. I always thought my massive frame made my penis appear smaller, especially in the man thong HA HA. I am 5 foot 7 and at my heaviest was 220. usually 185-195 for a show. I was a swimmer in high school too, so I had to wear the speedo. Didnt stop my fan club from following me to every event and taping me. They even made T shirts. Could pretty much take my pick when I wanted to because I was confident about myself. The size of my Dick didnt even come into play when it came to talking to them, dating them, or even sleeping with them. I am so close to your stats, brother. Been measureing every so often now and I see 6.2-6.5 NBEL depending on my EQ and about 4.75 Mid shaft EG. If girls thought it was small they never told me, and they had no probs cumming or even squirting on me.
Please dont take this the wrong way, but you should try sleeping with them first before getting anything done. I say this for two reasons. 1. You probably wont appreciate the improvements if you have nothing to compare it to, and 2. what good is a bigger penis if you don\'t seal the deal.
What you need first is more confidence in yourself. Never had a girl look in my pants or grab my junk and say they werent going to fuck me, and my Flaccid stats are pretty pathetic. I have had sex with the rainbow, brother. Asians, black girls, indian, native american, white girls, latino girls, and even a 19 year old right off the boat russian cleaning lady at the hotel I stayed at (what a story that was), and they were all different. I never said \"im not fucking her! She has an uneven labia\".

The best sex I have ever had has been with my wife and with her sworn enemy (my persistent ex). Both of them are the only women I have ever fallen in love with. With both women the sex was marginal at first because one of them had NO experience outside of kissing and the other had very little experience. The sex went on to improve greatly as time went on because we were unselfish and cared enough to learn about one another. To this day, I remember the first time I actually felt like I was \"making love\" rather than \"having sex\". The sex was mind blowing to me. It changed everything. At that moment it stopped being about two people pleasing each others organs and became two people making a true connection and sharing that feeling with passion. This was all with my wife. My wife is in the top ten, but certainly isnt the hottest woman I have been with, and she certainly wouldnt have been considered to be the best love maker right out of the gate, however she has given me the best sex of my life regardless. You see? To me it wasnt about the moves or the looks, but about the CONNECTION!

And one more thing. Women know that men come in all shapes and sizes (just like they do), and if they can\'t anticipate that and enjoy themselves, then they are the ones with an issue to sort out.

Sex is a lot more mental than it is physical

I remember struggling to keep from blowing my load too soon when I was a teenager. Was that because my Dick was more sensitive then? Hell no! It was mental, my man. Mental. Keep that in mind.


Hope that my perspective lends you something.