I made the mistake of asking a woman I really
like how big her biggest was in
Girth. She had a time in her 30s after her second divorce where she met and slept with a bunch of guys but not like huge slut territory. She said her best and longest length guy, the guy she was most attracted to in her life was “huge” and gave her the most orgasms in one sitting. I’m not concerned about this guy. Good for him. She said his angle, probably upward curve, was a factor. Now in her fifties she probably couldn’t have that same experience with any guy given a lower menopausal sex drive. I dont know what it is but I could care less about this guy. He probably had great
Girth but I doubt it was extremely girthy. I’m guessing he was a good 8x5.5. I think more about the guy she said had the biggest
Girth. This guy with the largest
Girth she experienced during a several month affair at 47 during her third marriage. She looked around the room for an object she could compare it too. She passed on a reg sized Aquafina water bottle. I’m assuming because it was too small she thought. This was the first red flag for me that she didn’t know what she was talking about. A water bottle is 7
Inch Girth. She probably couldn’t judge the depth. A water bottle doesn’t look that wide. She couldn’t find anything in the room so she cupped both her hands making a circle. She made what looked like 7inch
Girth or more and I was like “really?”. She then made her hands wider to 7.5 or 8 and looked at me like “this?”. I said, “that’s huge” and she said “oh good haha”. Wtf? She’s asking me how big he is?
This is where it gets more murky. The guy broke out all these toys the first time they did it. Maybe he wasn’t sure it was going to be an ongoing affair and he really wanted it to be fun. They were vibrator like toys and one was the c-shaped couples vibrator that cups the clit and also slides in the vagina pressing on the gspot. I never asked her how his
Girth alone specifically felt but she said the toys were great and “he was big so that helped”. That’s when I asked her how big. I’m asking her this five years after the affair so how big it was in her memory is a factor.
Let’s further complicate things. Her third husband wasn’t big at all, probably average and she said she never had a problem with his size. She isn’t a size queen, orgasms real easily and is really good and tightening her vaginal muscles. She’s had two c-sections, no vaginal birth. I don’t believe she went around sleeping with a new guy every weekend during her “wild” phase. She said her third husband wore a sleeve once and she wasn’t into it, too big. Let’s assume the sleeve got her husband to 6.5 or 7mseg, how could she adamantly say that was uncomfortable but enjoys this guy where she is miming has a 7.5
Inch Girth? She never said that guy was uncomfortable but she marries a guy who would probably be two inches or less in
Girth and she doesn’t have a problem and orgasms easily with him? How in the hell could she fit a couples vibrator and egg vibrator in her vagina and let him also penetrate her with an above 7inch
Girth? That’s where it most perplexing. If you look at that toy, it adds a lot of volume and depth.
For all these reasons I don’t believe the size she mimed to me. How off could she be? Is it A LOT more likely the guy was 6.1-6.3 mseg? I haven’t slept with her yet but there’s a real good chance.
I’m currently 6.1mseg and planning on a third round of
Ellanse to try and get 6.5. This is so stupid but I wish I was bigger for her for the first time. I might get with her and have the third round soon after, it’s just how it timed out. This could be a blessing because I get to see how she handles my current
Girth. My 6.1/6.2 mseg to 6.4/6.5
BEG could be perfect for her. If she says it’s perfect do I believe her and not go through with a third round if she’s taking it well and it doesn’t take too long to slide it
Balls deep? She could also really like it but it’s borderline too tight, maybe slight pain, and it takes time to warm her up to take it comfortably. In that case the idea of “perfect” could be more subjective, I will know the idea of him being above 7 was full of shit and the decision to get a third round will be a lot harder. What doesn’t help is that everything I read says it all depends on the vagina and it’s impossible to predict how she’ll take it.
So while I wish I was at 6.4-6.5 currently I guess it’s good to see how she likes my current size. I shouldn’t be letting this one girl take so much of my focus away from things but she is really important to me, we’re really close, and I’m still new to fucking after gaining an
Inch from 5.1.